Let us pause in life’s pleasures and count its many tearsThat’s the opening verse of the song “Hard Time Come Again No More,” a tune written by Stephen Foster in 1854 that has gone on to take a place in the Great American Songbook.While we all sup sorrow with the poor:
There’s a song that will linger forever in our ears;
Oh! Hard Times, come again no more.
“Hard Times” has been performed and recorded by countless singers through the years–Dolly Parton, Johnny Cash, Emmylou Harris, and Bob Dylan to name a few. I got turned on to it years ago by a version sung by James Taylor with Yo Yo Ma on cello. Teatro Grattacielo performed it here at Asbury earlier this summer as part of their concert celebrating our nation’s 250th anniversary.
“Hard Times” is a song for those who have “gone through it” or have been “up against it,” who have survived their ordeal and don’t want to go back.
The chorus expresses this thought with a plea, almost a prayer, to keep trouble away.
‘Tis the song, the sigh of the weary;Of course, one of the reasons the song endures is that hard times have a way of not keeping their distance.Hard Times, Hard Times, come again no more:
Many days you have lingered around my cabin door;
Oh! Hard Times, come again no more.
This is a sermon about hard times. More specifically, this is a sermon about finding the strength and the will to put one foot in front of the other and move forward even when you’re tempted to believe that if you just stay put, nothing else can go wrong.
In that way, this is a sermon about dealing with the hard times that settle in on us–the type of hardship that is the first thing we think of when we wake up, the last thing on our mind when we finally fall asleep, and the stuff that hovers over us every waking hour.
A parable told by Jesus about a pernicious weed will help us make this connection.
[Jesus said,] “The kingdom of heaven may be compared to someone who sowed good seed in his field; but while everybody was asleep, an enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat, and then went away. So when the plants came up and bore grain, then the weeds appeared as well. And the slaves of the householder came and said to him, ‘Master, did you not sow good seed in your field? Where, then, did these weeds come from?’ He answered, ‘An enemy has done this.’ The slaves said to him, ‘Then do you want us to go and gather them?’ But he replied, ‘No; for in gathering the weeds you would uproot the wheat along with them. Let both of them grow together until the harvest; and at harvest time I will tell the reapers, Collect the weeds first and bind them in bundles to be burned, but gather the wheat into my barn.’” (Matthew 13:24-30)Commonly called The Parable of the Wheat and the Tares, today’s lesson draws on the common experiences of the first generation of disciples to make an important point.
The thought that someone would sabotage his neighbor’s wheat harvest wasn’t unheard of in Jesus’ day. It was, in fact, judged to be enough of a problem that the practice was explicitly condemned in Roman law.
Jesus wasn’t talking about someone blowing dandelion spores into their neighbor’s yard. The weed in the parable is a ryegrass called darnel, and spreading it around was no joke.
Darnel is a nasty little plant. One of its ugly qualities is that in its earliest stages of development, it looks exactly like wheat. You could have a field invested with the stuff and not even know it.
Differences between the two plants don’t become obvious until late in the season, but by then their roots have intertwined and it is impossible to remove the weed without inflicting tremendous harm on the wheat.
Doing nothing about the darnel, however, is not an option because if you ultimately gather it, grind it, and bake it into bread, it can kill you—or at least mess you up in a bad way.
To that point, it’s modern scientific name translates as “drunken ryegrass,” an indication of the impact this stuff could have.
We might, therefore, call the crime of using darnel seeds to settle old scores germ warfare or terrorism and we can understand why the Romans passed laws against it. We can also understand why victimized farmers had to be very careful about how they handled an infested crop.
It seems that they had determined that the best way to separate the weed from the wheat is to pick both, then place all the grain in a fine sieve so it could be sifted. Because the grain from the darnel was smaller than wheat grain, it passed through the sieve allowing, at last, for one to be divided from the other. The preserved wheat could then be put to use, but the darnel, because of its harmful properties, was burned up, lest it be baked into someone’s lunch or fall into another unsuspecting farmer’s field.
The people who first heard this parable understood exactly what Jesus was talking about.
They had probably heard stories of mean people trying to sabotage their neighbor’s harvest with this weed. Maybe they even knew the dreaded feeling of being victimized themselves.
And perhaps as Jesus was speaking, they were already making connections to their own experiences.
“Well, no one has ever tried to poison my fields, but I can still relate to those people in the story who wanted to go pull up the weeds as fast as they could without thinking about the consequences. That sure sounds like something I’d do.”
What a helpless feeling it must be to spend the whole season watching the weed that will hurt you grow up alongside the wheat that will feed you?
Imagine waking up every morning just to look out over your fields and sighing to yourself, “What a mess!”
Or maybe you don’t need to imagine, because that’s exactly what going through hard times does to you.
Be it illness, or grief, or debt, a very real experience of injustice and oppression, a bad relationship, a bad job–hard times come in many shapes and sizes, but they always leave us wondering what went wrong, how did I get here, and how can I possibly get out of this.
I find three lessons in Jesus’ parable that speak to times like these.
First, in difficult seasons, you might not have all the time in the world, but you have the time to take a breath and think.
In the parable, we understand the impulse to start pulling weeds immediately, but the reality is that would’ve destroyed any possibility of a good harvest. Instead, the wise path forward began with a deep breath and the recognition that this thing that I didn’t want or ask for is happening, but now I have to deal with it.
And that leads to a second lesson–whatever you’re dealing with, someone else has dealt with it or is dealing with it, too, so go find them and talk to them.
Having a field filled with poison weeds was a big problem, but it wasn’t unheard of. It had happened before, and people had figured out how to overcome it.
But they needed to be asked, their counsel needed to be sought, and that meant–heaven forbid–someone might need to admit they need help.
How many lives and situations have gone sideways because someone refused to ask for or accept the help and wisdom that was available to them?
How many have suffered alone, when there was a friend, a community, a church, or an AA group willing to embrace them?
Whatever you’re dealing with, someone else has dealt with it or is dealing with it, too, so go find them and talk to them.
And that brings us to the third lesson.
Even more than the good wheat in the farmers field, you are worth saving.
You are worth the time and wisdom that it takes to get things right.
You are worth seeking a solution that works.
You are worth the love of Jesus Christ, they love that will never let you go—even when hard times come.
Thanks be to God. Amen.




